Can't Download Problems
This can happen because of two reasons:
1)This may be because of a firewall
For more information on configuring port forwarding: Firewalls & Routers help
2)This may be because of the Networks you're connected to
This may be because you're downloading from the eDonkey2000 (eD2k) network so you need to wait in the large queues. Try to just use Gnutella 2 and/or Gnutella. You may start downloading faster. IF you do decide to use eD2k you'll have wait hours or possibly days and there will be very long queues and the download will eventually continue, but slowly. Although eD2k is one of largest networks with many files, this is the way eDonkey2000 is.
Some Terms you may see
Pending: Means that the sources queues are full or they are busy and you can't download from them right now
Active: Means that your waiting in queue for the file and as soon as the people in front of you are done, it's your turn
No Sources: Means that eTomi cannot find any sources on the network(s) that you are connected to. Try connecting to more networks or waiting.